My reason Why.

13. 12. 2023
Personally written by Tinita Max Valič, the founder of Together-notAlone movement.

Today I write this letter to you, my friend.

I write this letter to you and for you. For you, to learn about my vision, belief and my why.

I believe that in 50 years from today, the society will be different.

In 50 years we will live in a society that is respectful, loving and supportive regardless of a persons gender identity, sex, age, ethnicity, cultural background, religion, race, sexual orientation, location, nationality, disability status and any other way that we as human beings are diverse in.

I believe that in 50 years the society we will live in is going to be a world where everyone is treated with respect and dignity, where no one is discriminated against or oppressed, where people of different cultures, religions, and backgrounds coexist in harmony and mutual understanding. A world where love, support, and kindness are the norm, not the exception. A world where every person has the opportunity to pursue their dreams and passions, to develop their talents and skills, to contribute to the common good and the well-being of the planet. A world where every person has a safe and comfortable home, a healthy and nutritious diet, a quality education and health care, and a fulfilling and meaningful life.

This is the world I envision. A world where humanity has overcome its challenges and conflicts, where we have learned from our mistakes and embraced our diversity, where we have cooperated and collaborated to create a better society for ourselves and for generations to come. A world where we have achieved peace, justice, and prosperity for all.

This is not a utopian fantasy.

This is a realistic and attainable goal. And it is within our power and our responsibility to make it happen. With Together-notAlone movement being just the start of it.

Is it going to be easy? No.

It requires a lot from and of us.

It requires to act with courage and compassion, to think critically and creatively, to communicate effectively and respectfully, to work hard and smart, to share and care, to learn and grow, to inspire and empower.

It requires a change.

But most importantly, it requires us to be the change we want to see in the world. And to take action today.

I believe in this vision.

I believe in humanity.

I believe in us. And I hope you do too.

Together, we can make this world a reality.

Let's start today.

Max. [he/him]

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Note: Because we are people of communication and as we all may know many things are lost in translation, let me go in depth about what is our meaning of Respectful, Loving and Supportive.

Respectful:
Being respectful means being mindful of our own reactions, even when we encounter people who are different from us in various aspects. Being mindful means avoiding any kind of hateful speech, mockery, or insults that could hurt the other person’s feelings or dignity. It also means being aware of our own strengths and weaknesses, and not letting others undermine our self-esteem or confidence. Being respectful means trying to understand the other person’s perspective, acknowledging their value as a human being, and communicating with them in a polite and courteous manner. By being respectful, we can create meaningful connections with others, learn from their experiences, and enrich our own lives.

Loving: To be loving is to feel or show love and affection for someone or something. It is to be supportive, attentive, and compassionate towards the other person, thing or being. It is to wish for their happiness and well-being and to consider their interests when making decisions. It also means to accept and appreciate ourselves, to take care of our physical and mental health and to pursue our goals and passions. Being loving allows us to create meaningful bonds with others, to share our joys and sorrows, and to enrich our own lives.

Supportive: To be supportive is to give encouragement and help to someone who needs it. It is to listen to their problems and offer what they need - advice or comfort. It is to stand by their side and cheer them on. It is to respect their choices and celebrate their achievements. It also means to believe in ourselves, to celebrate our achievements, to overcome our challenges and fears, and to seek help when we need it. Being supportive allows us to create meaningful bonds with others, to share our joys and sorrows, and to enrich our own lives.

I believe in you.